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Ways to make decisions

Voting, consensus, consent, delegation and the advice process — how each works, and when to use which.

Good governance makes it clear who decides what, how, and when it can be reviewed. It doesn’t have to be complicated, but it does have to be written down.

The main methods

Method How it works Good for Watch out for
Majority vote More than half decides Speed and clarity The minority can feel ignored
Consensus Everyone agrees or stands aside Deep buy-in Slow; one person can block
Consent Decide unless someone has a reasoned objection Balance and efficiency Needs some training
Delegation A role or team decides within limits Everyday operations Needs clear limits and reporting
Advice process Anyone can decide after consulting those affected Speed and trust Needs a mature culture

Most healthy communities use several methods: delegation for everyday matters, consent for policies, and a larger majority or consensus for major changes like new members or big spending.

  • Work is organised in circles — finance, garden, membership.
  • Each circle decides within its area by consent: a proposal passes unless someone has a reasoned objection related to the group’s aims.
  • Circles are linked by members who sit in both.
  • People are chosen for roles through open discussion.
  • Every decision has a review date.

Running a good meeting

  1. Send a clear agenda in advance
  2. Have a facilitator and a note-taker
  3. Open with a short check-in round
  4. For each item: information → discussion → proposal → decision
  5. Record what was decided, who does what, and by when
  6. Close with a check-out round
  7. Keep it under two hours

Keep a decision log

Memory is unreliable and disagreements about what was decided are common. For every decision, record:

  • Date and topic
  • The proposal
  • Who decided, and by what method
  • Objections and how they were handled
  • The final decision
  • Who carries it out, and by when
  • Budget
  • Review date

Your group workspace includes a decision log your whole group can see.

Roles most communities need

Coordinator · Facilitator · Treasurer · Secretary · Membership coordinator · Maintenance coordinator · Garden or food coordinator · Outreach · Conflict support